I was having a discussion last night with a friend about relationships. I always get attracted to the stern controlling types, when I know that is not what I want. Me being short tempered and easily pissed off I know me & the usual type I attract wouldn’t work out.
I know the guy I could work out with would have to be calm, free & happy. The type to ignore me when I’m angry and laugh about it later. Why do these couples stick it out with pure angered arguments for so many years? When it doesn’t get any easier just worse? When the trust gets lost the controlling gets unbearable, just a war awaiting to happen.
And why do we always want the best of things? Our standards set too high that we can’t see a beautiful personality right in front of our faces but we get attracted to the really attractive man that turns out to be a horrible person. Should we set our standards lower?
I always check on the Aspergers forum once in a while to read peoples stories. A common problem being relationships. My father being Aspergic is annoying, my mother is so calm and doesn’t take anything personal which makes them stay happy and content. I realised if my mother was arguing back the relationship would turn violent and ugly.
Is there such thing as a perfect relationship?
Any discussions feel free…